恋人间不要有秘密
It's never a good idea to withhold information from your loved ones, even with the purest of motives. As we see in soaps, people often think they're doing someone else a favor by going it alone, or protecting them from unpleasant truths, but it always blows up in their faces. In real life, secrets isolate us, make us miserable, and sometimes ruin relationships completely. Besides, isn't it more respectful to allow your loved one to decide what to do with the facts, rather than taking away their power?
不管怎样不要和你的爱人有秘密，即使你的动机并不坏。我们经常在言情剧中看到，人们会为了某人好而不把什么事情告诉某人，或者不让他知道某些实情，而结果永远会是更早。在现实生活中，秘密会孤立我们，给我们带来痛苦，有时候甚至会直接导致感情破裂。而且让你的爱人自己决定该怎样面对事实相较于前者不也是更尊重他的做法吗？