Do: Desirable “花花公子”
Women like guys who are pursued by other women. To trigger this reaction, you should flirt and meet with multiple women, instead of trying to attract a single one.
女人都对其他女人追求的男人怀有极大的兴趣。要达到这种效果，你必须学会与不同的女人搭讪、调情，而不是固守一个猎物。
So next time you're in public, try meeting and flirting with different women. Eventually you'll find that there will be a few women who are competing for your attention.
因此下一次你在公共场所，试试与不同的女人搭讪、调情。最终你会发现，好几个女人都想要吸引你的注意。
Don't: Using Insecure Body Language. 使用不自信的身体语言
Have you ever acted polite and formal with a woman on the first date You may have faked a few smiles and laughed at all her jokes, trying to maker her like you. It may be "nice," but women also think it's "wussy." She may not see it, but trust me when I say that she sees right through you.
初次约会时，你是否表现得既礼貌又拘谨？为了让她喜欢你，你可能时不时地堆出虚伪的笑容，听她说所有笑话时都装着笑出来。这么做也许让你显得“和蔼可亲”，但女人也会认为这是“老实巴交”。别以为她可能没看出来，但请相信我所说的，她已经看透了你。