用来形容女生把她的另一半管得死死的就用 whip 这个词，例如我们可以说：She's got him whipped. 或是 He is whipped.。但老美还有许多生动的成语可以用来形容这个“残酷”的事实。例如：She wears the pants in their relationship. 或是 She's got him wrapped around her little finger. 都是同样指“她要他往东，他绝对不敢往西”。还有一句：She's got him eating out of her hands. 意思差不多但不太常用。