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找工作亦需要人际关系

Source: 恒星英语学习网  Onion  2010-01-11  我要投稿   论坛   Favorite  
2. Your friends cross the street when they see you coming.
街上撞见熟人

You might have burned out your relationships by being so focused on your frustrations in finding a job. Think about your recent conversations.
你可能因为太专注于找工作而冷落了朋友。想想你最近有没有和朋友聊天?

Your fix: Courtesy. It's natural to use your friends and family as your networking jumping-off place. But if you just use them as immediate connections to a sure-thing job opportunity, you're going to burn out your friendships pronto.
计策:礼貌。通过朋友和家庭展开关系网是很自然的。不过,如果你仅仅把朋友当成获得一份稳操胜券的工作的快捷通道,友情也会很快冷下来的。

Definitely let them know that you're looking for work -- there's no shame there at all. And ask them for introductions to people they might know who would be able to move your search forward.
一定要让他们知道你正在找工作——这没什么不好意思的。问他们是否认识什么人能帮助到你。

Word to wise: When you are introduced to people, remember to thank your friends (thank all of your networking partners, for that matter) with e-mail updates, even formal, handwritten notes from time to time. Everyone likes to see their friends make progress out of a life crisis, and everyone likes to feel appreciated for the part they played in your journey to better times.
箴言:当你被介绍出去时,记得感谢你的朋友(以及帮你找到这些关系的人),随时发电邮,或者更正式一点,手写留言条。每个人都希望看到自己的朋友走出困境,同时也希望收到应得的感谢。
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